Hello and welcome to 2006!!Well the past week has seemed to have flown by and it doesnt appear to be slowing down either! New years was pretty mad at gloucester park with the fire works being the highlight of the night, I was the only single guy in the group (Jessica Alba was busy that night) so I had to fly solo.
Anyways fast forward to tuesday night and after salsa, I got chatting to this guy who decided to share his problems with women with me (who am I
Dr Phil??), so Im sitting while he is blabbering away and it came to me that alot of guys dont really have much of an idea when it comes to women (coming from a single guy thats pretty funny I know but this guy had NO IDEA).
So I decided to enlighten him with
some words of advice and I thought that I would share them with you all. Ladies if any this advice is wrong then please let me know cos Im no Don Juan! ;p
1. Be yourself, dont try and be something your not as women can sense when your not! kinda scarey I know!
2. Hygene!! yeah it does turn a women off if you havent had a shower in a couple of days and smell like something that is decomposing! DEODORANT helps especially if you sweat alot!!
3. Smile, sounds hard I know but looking like your about to kill yourself or someone isnt much of a turn on.
4. Be polite and friendly! manners are really good and alot of guys dont do the simple things anymore, like opening a door for a women, offering her your coat if its cold, flowers always make a great impression! NOTE: don't over do the whole present thing cos it can work against you (a present a week is a bit overkill) it makes you look a bit desperate.
5. Have a sense of humour! if your naturally funny then use it, if you find it hard to be funny then learn a few jokes (non offensive ones prefered). One of my fav things to do is tease them but in a good way.... "nice shoes, so which pixie did you steal those shoes from?" stuff like that.
6. Be a friend first of all! dont be another sleezy guy who is only after one thing.
Do avoid;
1. do not call and email her every 2 hrs, last thing you want to do is scare her away and finding a restraining order against you (NOT speaking from previous experiance!) every couple of days is a better option.
2. No means no!
NEVER force yourself upon a women or face the consequences of being put in a jail cell with a BIG guy called Bubba who will make you his bitch!
Well hope that helps and if it doesnt then seek proffesional help as I take no responsibilty if it doesnt! Later.....
